The Connection Between Emotional Hunger and Maternal Love
Michels et al. (2012) defined Emotional Eating (EE) as over-eating, irrespective of satiety, and in response to emotional states that are typically negative. Physical hunger means that you eat when your body signals to you that you are hungry, while individuals with emotional hunger turn to food to avoid uncomfortable emotions or to heighten a pleasurable one. This typically means that they eat based on their feelings, rather than what the body needs.
Maternal love is an essential component in the development of emotional life. It is a vital nutritional element of our physiological, psychological, or spiritual experience. Many individuals who lack maternal love in the early years of their life usually deal with emotional hunger in adulthood.
Deficiency disease of the emotional life shape appetite for a deep need to be liked or loved as a restoration of maternal love. Some individuals will turn to food for emotional nourishment, while some will develop a rich and elaborate fantasy life.
Emotional eating can be a result of the inner world filled with many old voices, fear of trusting oneself or being denied love, confusion, terrified of trusting their relationships with others for fear of being hurt, and habitually turning to the quick fix of food for comfort.
Some of the signs to recognize an emotional eater:
- Feeling an urgent need to eat.
- Eating at unusual times of the day or late at night.
- Craving a specific food or type of food.
- Feeling embarrassed or guilty about eating
- Eating excessively than usual to respond to emotions or situations, not to satisfy hunger.
- Sneaking food when you are highly stressed.
- Constantly hiding empty containers of food.
- Weight gain.
Maternal love is a vital nutritional element within the developing organism, and the healing journey can be long and painful. However, we encourage people with emotional hunger to follow some of the coping mechanisms below:
- Name the range of different fits of hunger inside you and find ways of responding to their different needs.
- Walking around parks. The tranquillity, severity of beauty and smells of nature can spark their imagination or help them feel inspired and renewed. Connection with this healthy part of nature can help them disconnect from their early experience.
- Take some time to watch the light stream through the trees and catch a glimpse of blue as the kingfisher darts across the ponds.
- Exercise more often, when your body is looked after, your appetite will be more regulated.
- Talk with a trusted friend, family member, doctor, or counsellor about the emotions and how they affect the primary social relationship.
Oluseyi Elizabeth Odudimu
